No One Way To Be A Man
Written by Ben Wilkoff
One of the primary practices of The Detoxing Man is being able to name and express feelings as they happen. However, as many men struggle mightily in doing this, myself included, I have created a way to “practice” this behavior. I call it Feeling Finding, and it is actually an easy way for anyone to […]
Written by Ben Wilkoff
Today we are going to take a look at a different kind of movie. Rather than looking at a some hard-hitting masculine energy on film, I’d like to take a look at quiet moment within an animated film that my sons and I have seen at least a few dozen times. This scene comes from […]
Written by Ben Wilkoff
For our fourth song in this series, I have chosen Problem Solver by Slim Dan. This is a very new song, having only been released earlier this month. I first heard it as a live TikTok video and I loved it so much that I went to his profile, found his email address and contacted […]
Written by Ben Wilkoff
So rarely have I seen a film that fully encapsulates the work of The Detoxing Man as I saw on Friday in watching The Last Black Man in San Francisco. The story is of Jimmy and Montgomery, two black men who are struggling to survive in the face of rapid gentrification and a world that […]
