No One Way To Be A Man
Written by Ben Wilkoff
The vast majority of the comments that I get on my TikTok videos are incredibly positive, supportive and reflective of the wide diversity of kindness that the world has to offer. They are life affirming thoughts of shared humanity, and they make it incredibly easy to keep going and making more videos on my Masculinity […]
Written by Ben Wilkoff
The world of men’s sports is dominated by larger-than-life examples of men pretending a singular form of manhood, a bravado that is so exaggerated that nothing gets to him, a hyper-masculine form of strength whose entire purpose is to dominate others. I did not initially turn to this performance type for inspiration in looking for […]
Written by Ben Wilkoff
When I started The Masculinity Detox, I sought out a diverse group of people who I respect for advice and thoughts on how best to support others in reducing toxic behavior. One such person was a long-time friend and a former colleague in Denver Public Schools. As a non-white married lesbian with a school-aged son, […]
Written by Ben Wilkoff
It is once again time to find the Red and Green flags for The Detoxing Man. What I find so compelling about this format is that the opposite of a Red Flag which I see as a barrier to connection is nothing but a Green Flag which I see as an Avenue for men to […]
